....what you is what you are capable of knowing,what you can do ,afford and run if where you are capacitated at that particular moment.not what you are meant to be.no one leaves who s/he is buts to run from the reality and that's why we are challenged in life since we run from the exact approach to life yearning to acquire new means by force before the time.(((((its only when we understand who we are ,where we are ,where we should be which the best steps meant for us to follow for us to be there that we shall be able to meet our targets in life and be able to overcome challenges.acceptance of who we are ,what we managed to go through whether bad or good,tough or soft,succeeded or failed.that we can be able to move on .learn to accept the past an d move on with the current which will lead to the future,appreciate your capabilities and potentials in your performance and use challenges to create new techniques or means to achieve what you didn't get in the past but don,t use them as the times of laying down your excuses of what you you should have done.in that you will be denying yourself "change" by blaming yourself by not doing what already you didn't do"relate this to exam situation .stand in an awe of all that you are going to do ,face and your expectation.
;;come -on lets move away from blaming ourselves and from being real.
anyone who is not real to himself/herself lies to himself/herself and there diminishes the chances of him getting to his/her destiny."learn to forgive yourself fully and accept the past".